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We had a very positive experience with the hosting program provided by Loving Stork Charities. To begin, one evening I came across a photograph of an adorable little girl from Ukraine and upon further inquiry, we learned that this little girl was available for Summer Hosting and that a family was needed to host her.
We sent an e-mail right away to ask if we could be the host family, and within a few days we learned that we were one of four families interested in hosting this particular adorable
girl. So, this is where we owe an extra debt of gratitude to Nana, because she tickled us to the point of almost not being able to sleep when a late night e-mail came saying she would assign Alina to us!
Within about a month, nine year old Alina arrived, and from the day we picked her up at the airport to the day we said goodbye, we thoroughly enjoyed our time with her. Of course, we wanted to adopt Alina from the day we first learned about her, but for those who are not so sure about whether adopting an older child is right for them, hosting definitely gives you the opportunity to get to know a child before you make the decision.
Alina is a very sweet girl, and seemed to do very well in her new environment even though everything was all so new and different. We have other children, most all of whom are younger than Alina, and she was always kind to them.
Never once did I observe any aggression. She loved everyone in our family, especially David our 18 month old, and we just began to bond so well. She blessed my heart as she would want to hold my hand as we went shopping, and would sometimes shyly hide behind us when we tried to introduce her to others.
She was so tickled when we celebrated her ninth birthday, even though she had already turned nine a month before. She enjoyed all the fun things we did as a family, and swimming in our swimming pool had to be about the biggest hit!
Loving Stork is the best! If ever there is the need to communicate something to your hosted child that the language barrier prohibits, Nana is there round the clock to help, and to talk to your child. She simply is fantastic, and you will know what we mean should you choose to host a child with Loving Stork.
To sum up our hosting experience, let me put it this way....I love it and I hate it! Love it because it enabled us to have wonderful weeks with Alina and sealed in our hearts and minds that we indeed want to adopt her, but on the other hand, hate it, because it was SOOO hard to say goodbye. After having a month to dote on our little angel from Ukraine,
treating her with all the love and attention such a little child deserves, to then take her back to the airport and leave her to go back to a world so far away - out of our home - out of our loving care....out of our reach...it honestly was a grieving process for us and one that would last for many days. We're slowly getting over it, and we hope to have her back in our lives forever through adoption. Not every child will react as our precious Alina. Some are not so sad to go back....for Alina it was pretty hard.....
I only pray she holds on to the hope that someday her Daddy & Mommy will return and take her home where we will never send her away again!
God bless
Barth Family
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